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These questions are asked me frequently:
I am new to fisting. Can I visit a FF party?
Yes! You are most welcome. It is always nice to see new guys at a FF party. You don’t have to participate. If you come for the first time, just look at everything that is going on. See the way fisters communicate during play. You’ll see that we are just like normal men 
More information about visiting a FF party is available in English and Nederlands.
Does it hurt to be fisted?
No. It does not hurt at all. More information for guys who are completely new to FF is available on the page alles over fisten (only in Dutch right now, I am working on a translation in all about fisting).
Don’t you have problems with your ass after fisting?
After a FF session, an ass does not always close immediately. But after a little while, it closes just like any other ass. The ass is a muscle. You train to stretch and relax it. When it is in resting position, it is as closed as any other ass. By training fisters know how to relax the muscle and this makes it easier to put a dildo or fist into it.
I am new to fisting. Would you please fist me?
I receive this question quite often. It is nice that so many men trust me. For a date with a novice, I only invite guys to whom I feel an attraction. Generally speaking, I am attracted to slim and smooth guys from age 25 – 35.
Look at the About me page to find out more and if you think we are a match then send an e-mail with a clear face and body pic(s).
I prefer to meet new guys first in a public place, for example a FF party. I frequently visit the parties in Club Church and Sameplace. (more info here). And you can also meet me every Wednesday in Club Church, when I work there.
I am an experienced fister and would like to meet you
I prefer to meet experienced fisters during a FF party. There are three FF parties in Amsterdam each month. What I like about meeting at a public party is that if it turns out we don’t make a good match, it is easier for you and me to say so. Then we are free to look around and find a more workable connection and still have some fun. A more practical solution and no one is left with hurt feelings.
But I don’t like FF parties or sex parties in general
In that case send me an message with some clear recent pics of your face and body and refer to your profile on gayromeo. My profile is www.gayromeo.com/fistrik.
What are the best websites to find fisters?
The best (free) dating site for gays in Europe is www.gayromeo.com. They offer much more value for no money compared to gaydar, recon and all those other sites.
An interesting new free website is www.xtremefistmen.com. It is running on the socialparody platform, which can be slow and sometimes has problems with logging in.
A third choice is Recon’s www.worldfist.com, although a free membership has only limited options.
For a review of these and other dating sites, go to the page dating sites.
Hi!
I love to be lower in fisting. After 5 years proeba, I want to have a rosebud, nopoka it is so small. I squeeze a rosebud in a closet, using poppers, but does not work. I read that you can use the pump for cock, after a good fisting or the development of the anus. I used to fuck himself, develop a point after a flask for the cock is inserted into a (oral) and pump-sort of like a rosebud, but a long time to keep that hard-ache inside. Prompt, give recipes, as I myself have a rosebud? Simply squeeze the toilet is not so simple, can have better options?
The second board-how to make the introduction to a depth of up to fist-logtya using popers? I can not breathe egsho as needed?
Give advice. Thank you.
I think this comment was translated by a computer. I don’t know what is the best way to develop a rosebud.
If I understand your second question correctly, you want to know how to develop deeper fisting. I would say use larger toys. But some men just can’t be fisted deep. An experienced top can tell you if you are able to develop more depth.